I came across this article today from Dan & Jennifer on how to tell if a woman is faking orgasm.

I hit full WTF mode at #6: “Her Clitoris Isn’t Sensitive Afterwards”

“This only lasts a few seconds, so make sure to ‘test’ her right after her orgasm. Touch her clitoris lightly after she’s climaxed and watch her reaction. If she’s totally cool with it, she faked. If she jerks back involuntarily and almost violently, her orgasm was real. If you were giving her oral sex, just keep licking for a few seconds longer than you need to and see what happens.”

This is a touchy subject, but I don’t feel like having sex all the time anymore. Surprise! I’m getting older. Soon I will be 44 years of age. I am into alternate sexual practices; I’m in an open relationship, BDSM, and have multiple sexual partners. I should always be in the mood, right? Wrong!

I hit the jackpot! I won the orgasm lottery!

I have not been able to stop masturbating since California Exotics sent me the just released 30th Anniversary Black Label Rechargeable Jack Rabbit to review. It’s been about a month. I’m weak. Send food. And more lube!

Woo-hoo!  It’s time for another sex toy contest!  The fine folks at California Exotics  have graciously sponsored this giveaway.  They sent me a blue Butterfly Kiss G-spot Vibrator to give to a lucky winner! The reviewers over at Eden Fantasies love this one.  It’s rated among the top 10 G-spot vibrators on the site!  It’s also my favorite style of vaginal [...]

September 12th, 2012 is Global Female Condom Day.  I am so thankful I discovered the many joys of female condoms so, of course, I’m here to spread the word! Contrary to popular belief, female condoms can be used by people of any gender in man/woman, woman/woman or man/man sexual encounters. To learn more, watch my Youtube video below to find [...]

This month the fine folks at California Exotics sent me a wireless remote controlled egg called Body & Soul Remote 1 to review. First of all, I love remote controlled sex toys for couples play.  The first time I got one was as a birthday present a few years ago.  My partner, Ken, had me open my gift right before [...]

Ben Wa balls, also known as Kegel exercisers, are all the rage.  We’ve known for over 1,500 years using them leads to improved vaginal health, better sex and stronger orgasms.  You’d think that would be enough to sell anyone.  But it wasn’t.  Aside from a surge in popularity in the 1970’s, Kegel exercisers largely remained unused and misunderstood.  As soon [...]

Very rarely do I fall in love with a vibrator.  I’m picky, tough to arouse and since I’ve sampled some of the best toys out there, I have very high standards.  The Jimmyjane Form 2 is one of my favorite vibrators of all time (the other 2 are the California Exotics Silicone Rabbit and The Wahl Massager). Normally, I don’t like [...]

  In the video above Ken and I discuss some of the techniques from these prostate milking instructional videos we tried.  They were a great success!  We encountered some things we didn’t expect (most of them good!) and prostate massage is something we’ve since incorporated on a regular basis in our lovemaking. Recapping some of the points we covered in our [...]

May is National Masturbation Month!  This article was written for and originally appeared in Lidia-Anain’s Sex Love Joy.  During the entire month of May, Sex Love Joy will feature a collection of masturbation stories by various authors.  Check back periodically for new writing.      I’ve always masturbated A LOT. I was about 5 years old when I started. I [...]

My partner, Ken, and I have been conducting a bit of research on prostate milking.  You know, intense hands on research strictly for SCIENCE! Below are a few instructional videos on prostate massage we found helpful.  In the first, Jennah Adams shows you how to milk the prostate with a gloved finger. In the second Brianna Beach demos with an Aneros [...]

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