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We Were on Sex Nerd Sandra Talking CLOWN SEX!

Sunny Megatron — Fri, 17 May 2013 04:23:55 +0000

Well, we weren’t ON Sandra but we were guests on her podcast! This episode was all about clown fetish. Oh, you didn’t know about the clown thing Ken & I have? Here’s a clown sex primer I wrote, Diary of a Sex Clown: Life Lessons from a Clown Fetishist. After you’re done reading that, check out the Sex Nerd Sandra [...]

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Learning My Own Sex Tips

Sunny Megatron — Tue, 26 Mar 2013 05:59:05 +0000

I love reading sex tips. There seems to be a chapter dedicated to great sex in every newsstand woman’s magazine. Sometimes however, I wonder if the authors have tried the suggestions they’ve written as most tend to lack originality and inspiration.

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If Men Could Menstruate

Sunny Megatron — Mon, 25 Mar 2013 23:37:44 +0000

Reading this essay was the very first time I felt validated in my suspicions that the world wasn’t balanced. Although I was told I could do anything, be anything, and my value was equal to that of a man, I knew deep down that really wasn’t true. What I was told and my day-to-day experiences were two very different things.

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I’m a 2012 Top Sex Blogger!

Sunny Megatron — Tue, 20 Nov 2012 20:02:08 +0000

Wow! I'm honored! I came in #12 on Rori's Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012 list! Thanks to all of you who read, comment and share my posts! Also thanks for voting for me. I'm am beside myself with happiness :)

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The New “C” Word: Don’t Call me a Cismale!

Sunny Megatron — Tue, 02 Oct 2012 03:46:00 +0000

That is the worst word I know. It has horrific connotations and nothing can make it right. Ever. I cringed at the thought of using it, but I chose to write the most terrible word I know to make a point. So why, you ask yourself, would you drop the “N bomb” Ken? I used that terrible word to draw attention to how words can anger us. In 1994 there was a trans-man

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Ode to Butches

Sunny Megatron — Sun, 23 Sep 2012 19:08:48 +0000

I love everything about butch women, and I always have. More feminine girls just don't do anything for me sexually- I can objectively admire their beauty and sexiness, but in the end, it's when I see a woman who is androgynous, boyish, or plain out manly, my heart starts to pitter-patter. So let me sing an ode to butches here, because ...

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Happy Bisexuality Day! Why is it so Hard Being Bi?

Sunny Megatron — Thu, 20 Sep 2012 20:33:19 +0000

September 23rd, 2012 is Bisexuality Day. We need more visible bisexual role-models and supporters so I’m doing my part! I dig everyone– dudes, chicks, people whose plumbing traditionally matches their gender, those who don’t match and everywhere in between. Some may call that bisexual, some pansexual and some queer. Whatever label you choose for yourself ultimately doesn’t matter. What matters [...]

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50 Shades Of Grey Library Book Club a Success!

Sunny Megatron — Sun, 16 Sep 2012 18:52:28 +0000

Last night I hosted a 50 Shades of Grey Book Club at the Elmwood Park Public Library. I’ve hosted other 50 Shades book clubs but this was my first at a public library. What a wonderful turn-out! This was the largest book club audience the library had ever hosted! I was very much taken aback by the diversity of the [...]

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Pubic Hair: To Shave Or Not To Shave?

Sunny Megatron — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 03:56:01 +0000

This is a must read article on pubic hair from Good Vibrations Blog. It’s like the author, Alyssa Royse, and I are twin souls. Like her, I didn’t remove my pubic hair until well into my 30′s. I can’t love my hair(less)style enough. Sometimes I wonder why I didn’t do it sooner. Sex is better for me when I’m hairless. I also [...]

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Sex On Prime Time TV – Red Light District Tour on Travel Channel

Sunny Megatron — Fri, 07 Sep 2012 17:29:34 +0000

The Travel Channel segment we filmed in May aired last night. Woo-hoo! It’s for a show called Extreme Tours and features some of the stops I visit hosting a Weird Chicago Tours Red Light District Tour. Through the months of editing I kept wondering how they were going to dumb-down the sex tour for G-rated television. On the tour we don’t hold back. How was I going to do a sex toy demonstration, visit a BDSM Dungeon or do and say even a fraction of the stuff that normally occurs?

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Get Lusty Podcast: Chicago Based Sexuality Educator Sunny Megatron

Sunny Megatron — Tue, 21 Aug 2012 02:32:02 +0000

Huge thanks to Get Lusty for interviewing me! Below is a re-print of the original article/podcast published on GetLusty.com. Also, if you haven’t checked out Get Lusty, get started! They post a bunch of sex positive, awesome articles every day. You can also find other podcasts on the site featuring people like Pro-Dommes, BDSM enthusiasts and other big-name sex educators like [...]

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Top Sex Bloggers of 2012 & Thank You!

Sunny Megatron — Sat, 18 Aug 2012 00:21:17 +0000

Hello Glorious Readers! I want to take a minute to say thank you for all of your support. Nearly every day I receive a nice note from someone thanking me for the information and services I provide. That’s why I love my job. Sure, I could make a ton more cash working for the man (and I used to) but [...]

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Why I Don’t Try To Prevent HIV (and don’t think you should either)

Sunny Megatron — Tue, 14 Aug 2012 06:17:04 +0000

This was written by Wintersong and previously appeared on BarkingShaman.com. It specifically applies to safety issues around play that involves blood product, such as play-piercing and cutting play. Although this writing specifically applies to blood-play scenarios in a BDSM context, sexually active people from all walks of life can benefit from giving it a read. Please keep in mind, there may be different considerations regarding [...]

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Work It! Sunny Megatron: Sex Educator, Weird Tour Guide, Kinky Blogger!

Sunny Megatron — Mon, 23 Jul 2012 19:05:44 +0000

What do you do, in your own words, and how long have you been doing it? I do a whole bunch of odd and interesting things. Strangely, all of my work centers around two of life’s most intriguing, misunderstood and mysterious taboos: sex and death.

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“A Guide to Emotional Independence” or “How I learned to Stop Worrying & Not Give a Fuck What Other People Think”

Sunny Megatron — Tue, 03 Jul 2012 16:43:41 +0000

Here’s a quick guide to being secure with who you are, being comfortable with your own feelings, and being able to maintain emotional independence without feeling stifled by other people’s responses…

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Ken & Sunny Milk a Prostate!

Sunny Megatron — Wed, 27 Jun 2012 19:45:57 +0000

In the video above Ken and I discuss some of the techniques from these prostate milking instructional videos we tried. They were a great success! We encountered some things we didn’t expect (most of them good!) and prostate massage is something we’ve since incorporated on a regular basis in our lovemaking. Recapping some of the points we covered in our [...]

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Teaching an Old Dog New Tricks: 30 Days of Polyamory

Sunny Megatron — Fri, 22 Jun 2012 02:00:51 +0000

Over the next month or so I’ll be focusing on subjects relating to non-monogamy. I’ll answer many questions for you— from defining lexicon (what’s Poly vs. Open Relationship vs. Mono/Poly, etc) to walking you through the how-to’s (how to approach someone for a threesome, how to ask your partner for an open relationship, etc.) and everywhere in between.This series of [...]

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Why is Social Media So Important for Porn Stars?

Sunny Megatron — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 19:29:35 +0000

**“When I look at most models, actresses, and singers in mainstream, I find that I know very little about the person. Many A-listers don’t have an account on Twitter or Facebook, and if they do it’s usually maintained by an assistant or a PR firm simply telling you where to find them next (movie, CD, magazine cover, etc). But [...]

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I Don’t Like You Much, Christian Grey

Sunny Megatron — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 19:54:42 +0000

A few days ago, one of the local radio news stations interviewed us for their “50 shades of Grey” series. I was interested in talking about the book. One way or the other it’s an important book right now. It’s on paper, it’s got a cardboard cover, it’s written with an incessant and continual internal dialogue that makes you want to stick needles in your face, it’s on the bestseller list.

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Stop Hating on 50 Shades of Grey!

Sunny Megatron — Fri, 01 Jun 2012 17:42:48 +0000

My fellow literary snobs, sex educators, kinksters & sex positive community members may be shocked to hear me say this: STOP HATING ON 50 SHADES OF GREY! Yep, you read that correctly. I’m defending 50 Shades of Grey. Whether you have read the book or not, there are a few things we need to get out of the way. First, lets [...]

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The Journey of Self Love – My Masturbation Story

Sunny Megatron — Wed, 16 May 2012 18:22:30 +0000

May is National Masturbation Month! This article was written for and originally appeared in Lidia-Anain’s Sex Love Joy. During the entire month of May, Sex Love Joy will feature a collection of masturbation stories by various authors. Check back periodically for new writing. I’ve always masturbated A LOT. I was about 5 years old when I started. I [...]

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Vote for Weird Chicago Tours – Best of 2012 + Film Shoot Update

Sunny Megatron — Mon, 07 May 2012 05:52:09 +0000

As many of you know, I am a tour guide for Weird Chicago Tours. I host every type of tour offered at Weird Chicago — Serial Killer, Weird & Haunted, Devil & The White City, True Crime & Gangster, etc. On this site I am most known for hosting Weird Chicago Red Light District Sex Tours. The Sex Tours have become so popular, they are coming soon [...]

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Diary of a Sex Clown: Life Lessons from a Clown Fetishist

Sunny Megatron — Sat, 28 Apr 2012 06:03:59 +0000

Upon meeting a prospective partner in a coffee shop or at the corner bar, they often become “Coffee Shop Hottie” or “Corner Bar Dude” in casual conversation amongst friends. When I first met the love of my life, my best friend and I secretly referred to him as “The Sex Clown.”

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Put it Between My Breasts: My Mother’s Day Story

Sunny Megatron — Mon, 09 May 2011 03:31:26 +0000

When I was about 7 years old I accidentally heard my mother having sex. I stayed quiet as not to be discovered but had to keep listening out of sheer curiosity. At one point I heard her say in a whispery, trying-too-hard, bedroom voice “put it . . . between my . . . breaasssttts!”

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Direct Assistance for People in Sendai, Japan

Sunny Megatron — Wed, 23 Mar 2011 18:23:56 +0000

I’m breaking from my usual format to ask for your help. By now you’ve all heard about the horrors the people Japan are facing in the wake of the recent earthquakes, tsunami and nuclear scare. Thousands have been left homeless and large portions of Japan stand in ruin. Ken Melvoin-Berg (from Weird Chicago Tours and my partner in love, crime, [...]

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Former Pumpkins Bassist, D’arcy Wretzky, Jailed

Sunny Megatron — Thu, 10 Feb 2011 21:57:17 +0000

TMZ reported today former Smashing Pumpkins bassist, D’arcy Wretzky, was arrested in Michigan. Take a good look at the mug-shot. I know what you’re thinking: “OMG! Darcy, honey! What happened!? Are those little meth sores on your face? Thank science we can’t see your teeth!” Wretzky wasn’t jailed for what you might think, folks. She was nabbed for failure to [...]

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HyperAlerts: Managing Facebook pages just got easier

Sunny Megatron — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 21:51:43 +0000

I run a few Facebook fan pages. I have always found it incredibly frustrating as the administrator of a page I can’t get notifications of comments and new posts as I do on my personal page. A couple of weeks ago I found HyperAlerts, a free new 3rd party service that sends you an e-mail whenever you have a new [...]

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